Being a leader is never easy. Possibly the hardest thing about leadership is dealing with followers that now want to string you up for something that you have no responsibility for.
David encountered this situation in 1 Samuel 30. David and his men had gone out to war with the Philistine king, but before getting to the battlefield, the king told David to go home because the Philistine commanders didn’t trust him. Upon returning to Ziklag where they had been staying, David and his men found their settlement in ashes and all their families and possessions had been taken for plunder by the Amalekites. God gives us a tremendous insight into real leadership with verse 6:
David was greatly distressed because the men were talking of stoning him; each one was bitter in spirit because of his sons and daughters. But David found strength in the Lord his God.
First, a few observations:
1. David never asked these men to follow him (Samuel 22).
“David left Gath and escaped to the cave of Adullam. When his brothers and his father’s household heard about it, they went down to him there. All those who were in distress or in debt or discontented gathered around him, and he became their commander. About four hundred men were with him. “
They came of their own freewill. He never gave them any promises. He never set them up with false expectations.
2. Following David, these men got used to victory. Everything they did they had success in. They got spoiled by it. They were more than willing to take the spoils of following David but not the pain. When they won, it was normal. When they had a setback it was David’s fault somehow.
3. David had been rejected by Saul after rescuing his kingdom from Goliath. He had been rejected by the Philistine king as he rode to battle with him (Samuel 29) and now he was being rejected by his followers. David was literally alone in his leadership.
Application: If you try to find your strength for leadership from your followers, you will get killed. If your strength flows from God, your leadership will flourish.
1. Every leader will have a Ziklag moment. Those above you (Saul) will be threatened by you, those beside (the Philistine king) you won’t trust you and those under you (David’s followers) will want to blame you. As a leader you cannot avoid this moment, but you can prepare for it. When it happens, it is already too late to react to it. You better already have your soul in a condition to weather it.
2. The Ziklag moment is not a shaping moment, it is a revealing moment. We can all say “God is my strength,” but it is moments like this that reveal the source of our spiritual strength. If our strength flows from our followers, we will give up on them as soon as they give up on us. Here’s the part that hurts: If you abandon your followers because they abandon you, what you reveal is that your leadership is all about yourself. If your followers aren’t there to give you strength, you don’t need them. They become dead weight so you will slough them off.
BUT, if your strength flows from God, your followers might not like you, but you will remain a source of strength for them. What you will reveal is that God’s strength is available to anyone who seeks it. By being a temporary conduit of God’s strength, you will point them to the the true source. In other words, by revealing Christ in you, you also reveal the possibility of Christ for them.
3. Ultimately, the Ziklag moment sets leaders up to be broadcasters of mercy instead of revenge. Later in Samuel 30, many of the men are too tired to complete to chase down and fight the Amalekites. So they stay back and let the rest do all the fighting. On the way back from the victory, some that went the distance want to hold back the plunder and not share it with those who were too tired to go on. David sets a new standard by declaring the entire group will share the riches. David puts a higher priority on unity and community than he does on performance. He shifts their thinking from Me to We. That’s what leaders do.












